u/bloodybohemian

I feel it’s important to note: THESE ARE REAL PEOPLE. THIS ISNT FICTION. YOU CANT JUST ASSUME WHAT HAPPENED. THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO CAN ARGUE THAT ARE THE PEOPLE WHO WERE THERE.

For context, I myself have experienced SA/>!rape!< and suffer from a slew of mental illnesses including BPD and autism.

Anyways—

Stalking Ren everywhere they go literally changes nothing about this situation. It’s going to court, it’ll be legally processed, this should be the end of the story. I am by no means on Rens side after seeing the evidence come out and the holes in her story but whose side I’m on should not matter because I’m a random person on the internet. (I’m willing to change my mind depending on how this case settles, but for the time being this is my stance). Still, constantly posting “look!! Look what she said isn’t she crazy omg look!!!!” Is so fucking immature and isn’t doing anything but making people who support zeal look just as crazy as people who support her.

Everyone went after Zeal in the beginning while MAKING FUN OF HIS SUICIDE NOTE and now we’re doing the same shit to Ren, another mentally unstable person. This shit isn’t a game, it’s not some inside joke between friends, these are real people (who, mind you, we don’t even know personally) and the fact this is how a huge chunk of the community behaves when given this type of situation is extremely gross to me.

Ren is clearly a mentally unwell individual, this should be obvious. As someone with BPD, I myself have been in a similar mindset as they have and I have sympathy for that, I hope she can recover from whatever it is that she is going through. However, their mental state/disorders do not excuse their behaviors and it disgusts me that they use it as a crutch, so time will only tell if they accept help and grow from this.

The things Zeal has had to put up with along with the rest of the team also upsets me, but I do not think Zeal is the most mentally sound person either. I feel he should take a step back from this project and figure out how to function properly with such huge responsibilities (like running a team and being a boss etc) proper communication (even with autism) is possible with practice and the right support system. Again, mental illnesses/disabilities should not excuse someone’s actions. They can explain it, but accountability needs to be taken.

Both of these people view this situation very differently. Only they can resolve it. Being rude and hateful towards either parties solves absolutely nothing.

We as a community hold no more power over this and honestly this should’ve stayed between ren and zeal + whoever else was closely involved instead of being thrown to the wolves that are twitter users. If you really want to see this situation resolve/end, STOP FEEDING INTO IT. It’s been almost two months (?), there’s nothing more that can be done. Let the legal system handle it.

This is an open discussion, I’m willing to have a civil conversation about this, but please be mature about it.

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