u/bobby-flayed

My hubs’ birthday is next week and he LOVES chocolate baked goods, the more chocolately the better. In the past I’ve made him things like brownies and flourless chocolate cake with chocolate ganache, but I’m looking for new suggestions! If you have a recipe you love please help a gal out!!

I’m 15 weeks pregnant (FTM) and really not showing a lot, depending on the time of day and how much I’ve eaten I either look not pregnant at all, or maybe a bit if you squint. (It’s honestly surprising to me that it’s so minimal, I’m pretty short and I do work out a lot but I know short people tend to show more, but I digress.) We really just started telling our friends/coworkers after getting through family, and a looooot of people have been like “girl I couldn’t tell at all!” “you don’t look pregnant!” while gesturing at my body. I’m usually just like “yeah I’m not showing too much yet” but the way a lot of them are saying it as a compliment is so fucking weird to me. Do they want me to say thank you? I know I’m getting kind of the opposite side of the spectrum of the typical inappropriate commentary, but why do people feel the need to comment at all? I feel like everyone should know that everyone carries pregnancy differently at this point. This is obviously not earth shattering news that people do this shit, but it’s my first experience of like wow people really do just get to a different plane of comfort commenting on people’s bodies when they’re pregnant. Really not looking forward to the rest of this.