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If you do taiko in Sacramento, I have several supplies. Just delivered them to Sacramento’s Taiko Dan’s back door. Have not found a way to contact them, if you can find the donation bag, it’s yours.

Daughter is in her 30s, has always had, shall we say, a tenuous grip on reality. She lost her sister, my daughter, to suicide 4 1/2 years ago. Last year she developed auditory hallucinations about being harassed by a neighbor, being threatened with murder, killing her dog, telling her she’s ugly etc. She also has a chronic illness for several years now for which she has become habituated to opioids and takes ADHD medication. Believe it or not I don’t think she abuses these, but she is dependent on them. And they may also be causing her psychosis. Using the leap method. Just so hard to watch her struggle and am bummed out. We support her and her apartment, which I’m forever grateful she has.

Thanks for the vent.

Please keep it positive. I’ve watched videos by YNAB, Nick, and Hannah, set up our plan. Edited to say: We have a few credit cards and two bank accounts and many numbers continue to not add up. YNAB help over email is too slow and not responsive enough (fix one problem then have questions about it and others).
If you have used a YNAB certified coach I would love to hear if you recommend one and what your experience was, thanks.