u/brandJeetu

Umm... thoda unusual way hai shaadi ke liye post karne ka 😅 but thought why not?

I’m 40M, from Jaipur, Hindu, Sain community. Divorced.

Basic details:

Age: 40

Height: 5'8"

Location: Jaipur

Religion: Hindu

Community: Sain — but honestly, caste/community is not a deciding factor for me.

Education: 10th

Profession: Real estate + currently building a startup

Lifestyle: Vegetarian

Smoking: Yes

Drinking: No

Living: Independent

Family setup: Joint family

Kids: Yes, I definitely want children in the future.

Coming to education — I know 10th qualification may look a little unusual here, so I'd rather be upfront about it.

I don't have fancy degrees to put on my profile, but I've always been more of a practical-learning person. Business, people, situations and life have taught me a lot. I genuinely enjoy discussing things and understanding problems, and over the years I've had people from completely different professional backgrounds — including highly educated professionals — come to me for practical suggestions/opinions.

So yes, degree-wise I'm not highly qualified, but life/business experience-wise I've learnt quite a lot. 😅

About me

I'm quite business-minded, ambitious and adventurous, but at the same time I'm pretty chill and fun-loving.

I love travelling and exploring places I've never been to before. Especially religious, historical, mysterious and mythological places. Random road trips, discovering some completely unknown place, trying something new — that's my kind of fun.

Fitness is also a big part of my lifestyle. I'm kind of a fitness freak and would definitely love a partner who enjoys taking care of herself too.

Personality-wise, I'm funny, curious, straightforward and probably a little obsessed with building things. 😄

Currently, I'm working in real estate and also putting serious time and energy into building my startup. So entrepreneurship/business is going to be an important part of my life.

What am I actually looking for?

Honestly, I'm not looking for just a “wife”.

I want a best friend + partner + soulmate type of relationship.

Someone with whom I can talk about absolutely random things at 2 AM, laugh at stupid stuff, plan spontaneous trips, discuss business, argue over completely unnecessary things 😂 and still know that we're on the same team.

I want a woman who is:

Romantic ❤️

Caring

Loyal

Emotionally mature

Understanding

Fitness-conscious

Business-minded

Independent in her thinking

Family-oriented

Good at communication

And most importantly, someone who genuinely believes in true love and partnership.

I would really appreciate someone who has her own ambitions/career/business and wants to grow in life.

At the same time, I'd love if she could eventually be involved in my business as well — not because I expect her to work for me, but because I'd love to build something together.

Basically, I'd like us to be the kind of couple who can say:

“Let's build our life together.”

Career, business, travelling, family, fitness, finances — everything should feel like a team effort.

Family

Family is important to me.

I live independently, but my family is an important part of my life and my preference is a joint-family setup.

I'm not looking for someone who simply “adjusts” with my family while sacrificing herself.

I want mutual respect.

She should be able to understand and respect the family, and I'd obviously expect the same from my side towards her.

I believe marriage shouldn't become “your family vs my family.”

It should be “our family.”

Marriage & relationship

I'm not interested in endless casual dating or a situationship.

The intention should ultimately be marriage, but I also don't believe two strangers should meet once and suddenly decide they're compatible for life.

I'd rather we talk, meet, spend some time together, understand each other's personality, expectations and lifestyle and then decide.

No unnecessary rushing.

But also no “let's keep talking for 3 years and see what happens” 😅

If we genuinely like each other and things work, the intention should be to build something real.

What matters to me

I don't expect a perfect person.

Life isn't perfect and neither am I.

What I want is someone who, when life gets difficult, doesn't immediately start thinking about quitting.

Someone who can look at a bad situation and say:

“Okay... shit happened. Ab kya karna hai?”

Then we figure it out together.

I want us to celebrate each other's wins, support each other's failures and basically have each other's back.

Because eventually, parents, relatives, friends — everyone is important.

But once we choose each other, we should also choose each other every day.

A few preferences

Age: Preferably below 35.

Fitness: Being fitness-conscious/active is a big plus.

Career: Working/business-minded is definitely preferred.

Community: Honestly, caste doesn't matter to me.

Hindu is preferred because of family compatibility, but I don't want caste/community to become a barrier if two people genuinely connect.

Family: Someone who is comfortable with a joint-family setup and understands the importance of family.

Children: I definitely want children.

And yes, romance matters. A lot. ❤️

I don't want a relationship that feels like two roommates sharing responsibilities.

I want friendship, attraction, affection, respect, conversations, travelling, stupid jokes, occasional fights 😅 and that feeling that “haan, this is my person.”

Finally...

I'm not here looking for someone “perfect”.

I'm looking for someone real.

Someone who can be my partner in life, my best friend, and eventually someone with whom I can build a family and maybe a few businesses too. 😄

If this sounds like something you'd genuinely be interested in, feel free to DM.

Please don't just send “Hi/Hello”. 😅

Tell me a little about yourself — age, city, work, what you're looking for and anything you think I should know.

Let's see if the vibe matches. ✨

Is there any female in Jaipur who would be open to sharing a flat with a male without worrying about the rent? Don't worry, it's just a casual arrangement—we could be best friends living together. Only those without a boyfriend or those who have recently gone through a breakup, please! 🤣🤣