u/bunberry404

Mullah maxxing gone wrong

Mullah maxxing gone wrong

So I had exams and my university hosted a Quran club by inviting various Islamic scholars to talk about the topic "is this the beginning of the end?" we weren't aware what kinda jokers would be invited.

Me and my friends were sitting in the hallway revising for our exam when one of them, Dr. Sohail Hassan approached us. One of my friend wore jeans and shirt like all of us but just because she was in his line of sight she got targeted. He walked up to us and said "when in Rome do what the Romans do"

He started lecturing her about how she's following the west and not dressing modestly enough (she was fully covered btw) we argued back about individuality and told him that he shouldn't police women over what they're wearing on which he let out a huge laugh. He then looked her up and down and said yes you're covered but not according to Pakistani standards.

I get that people try to bring others closer to Islam various ways but he kept talking about culture and Pakistan, didn't even mention Islam once. Told us to meet him later, he'll teach us how to dress properly and left.

We tried telling the administration but because he was a guest they couldn't do anything about this.

He was berating us in the middle of the hallway too btw, like Bhai why are you yelling Infront of everyone. This is why I don't like/trust any Pakistani islamic scholar because innka Islam larkiyon ki dressing sey start hota hai and 4 shadiyon pey khatam hota hai.

u/bunberry404 — 2 days ago

Bleached hair?

This sub felt the safest option to ask my question here but does anyone have any experience with bleaching hair? I wanted streaks with blue color but I'm scared I'll fry off my hair if I don't do it correctly. I wanted to do it by myself because the saloons ask for almost 20k and I don't have the budget rn

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u/bunberry404 — 4 days ago
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Product of patriarchy

My mother spent her life obeying her father. She didn't go to law school because he didn't allow her and agreed to marry a man her father chose for her as they did in the old days.

That was the early 2000s and now there's me.

She always complains about how much freedom I have and how I'm allowed to go to a co ed university to study, how my dad doesn't stop me from studying and I just let her rant because I'm all that she wished she could be but things started being weird.

I'm barely 21 and she started talking about marriages and kids and susral and other stuff that I don't really care about. Maybe she hates me man idk but she always strikes me at my lowest point. I was preparing to move to a university abroad after two years of university to complete my remaining ones there.

She deleted my acceptance letter and forced me to tell them that I'm not coming. Why? Because shadi krkei husband kei Sath Jana. I was down because of this and this impacted our relationship making it non existent. I still plan on going abroad for a masters but now it's unbearable when she talks about rishtas and shadi 24/7 whenever I try to talk to her about my future.

This has been getting under my skin a lot and I don't know how to deal with this. I'm barely allowed to go out with my friends or just normal stuff, this feels like I'm being shifted from one cage to another even if I do think about marriage which I'm not rn. I'm just so exhausted

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u/bunberry404 — 8 days ago

I've been wanting to go to the bank for almost 4 months and my younger brother never has time to take me out. I asked once that maybe I can go alone because it's a two minute walk from the house and got a 5 ghantey ka lecture on how inappropriate that is kei mei kisi muhafiz kei begair bahir niklun, can't escape the patriarchy with this one 🫩

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u/bunberry404 — 16 days ago

I hate pakistani girl dads so much oh my goddddddd. Me and my friend were supposed to go out on Saturday to hangout (we last saw eachother in 2019 ) and have been planning this since March because we usually stay busy so we cleared our calendars for eachother. My friend got in a fight with her dad yesterday when he was yelling at her for being a bojh on him and how he wishes that she'd just gets married. She was angry too so she said that woh apni marzi sei tou nai ayei idher unnki waja sei ayei.

That was it. Bro told her kei she's not allowed to go out anymore and I'm here like 🧍🏻‍♀️ it's not her fault obviously but I'm so annoyed. Wdym you're a grown ass man pushing 60 and beefing with a 20 year old telling her that she's a bojh when you voluntarily had kids.

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u/bunberry404 — 20 days ago

I'm wearing a dress that's black with little red hearts to go out with a friend on Saturday. Idk what eye look would go with that 😿 plis help (dm me if you wanna see the dress but black and red are its only colors and ion know what else to do) send me inspo plis

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u/bunberry404 — 21 days ago
▲ 6 r/GenZpk

All my friends use discord but ion get the hype, I made an account there a few days ago and the app is useless. Idk what my friends like about it

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u/bunberry404 — 21 days ago
▲ 1 r/GenZpk

My red flag is that if I try uploading stuff on social media, I expect 1k followers (unrealistic) within a day with brand deals (soja behen) but then again if I get 2 follows and 3 likes in general you'll never see me online again (insta delete krdey) why am I like this 🫩

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u/bunberry404 — 23 days ago