i don't want to leave him what do i do

he didn't do anything physical or send anything but was actively seeking something the last message was 10/23/25, i was pregnant and it was 2 months before we got married. we have two kids and i really don't want to leave him i love our little family im just extremely hurt and don't know how to idk like beat the fact that it hurt me into him he says he doesn't remember doing it/ realized that it was wrong bc i was pregnant and i do believe him but i don't bc he's completely broken my trust. he's currently acting like nothing has happened and im not sure what to do please help

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u/bunni_chan — 10 days ago

what do i do abt cheating husband

he didn't do anything physical or send anything but was actively seeking something the last message was 10/23/25, i was pregnant and it was 2 months before we got married. we have two kids and i really don't want to leave him i love our little family im just extremely hurt and don't know how to idk like beat the fact that it hurt me into him he says he doesn't remember doing it/ realized that it was wrong bc i was pregnant and i do believe him but i don't bc he's completely broken my trust. he's currently acting like nothing has happened and im not sure what to do please help

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u/bunni_chan — 10 days ago
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is this cheating?

we were tg and he says he doesn't remember it at all but at the same time he "thought abt out it and doing one girl while looking another guy in the eyes is weird" so idk how im supposed to react or do ive never been cheated on this was last year in july very last text sent was in october and we got married in november but what do i do i feel hurt still but at same time everything he said kinda gave me closure like hes not doing it right now and ??he doesn't remember it ?? but its still there and he deleted the app

u/bunni_chan — 10 days ago

is my husband cheating or these phishing

i can't tell if they are fake or not

"Skaterboy!
Inbox
From
To
Date
Kimberly H Apr 22
to me A
Kimberly H ---------@gmail.com
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Apn 22, 2026 at 4:14AM
Standard encryption (TLS)
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Skaterboy, you matched."

"Re: Skaterboy hola
Inbox
Kimberly B Apr 6
to me a
...
From
To
Date
Kimberly B -------------@gmail.com
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Apr 6, 2026 at 6:40 PM
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Skaterboy, found each other?"

u/bunni_chan — 2 months ago

will someone test my husband

i don't think he's cheating but i have a weird gut feeling and he has these weird emails that look like phishing but at the same time are obviously like let's hook up emails and he's been looking up a lot of hot women on facebook recently and added a girl who lives in the same area that he works recently

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u/bunni_chan — 2 months ago