Ready to wean 17mo and need advice
I am ready to wean. We gradually reduced feeds and also changed the location so my son knows he only nurses in our bed. This helped a lot. He started sleeping through the night two months ago and stopped night feeds on his own. We stopped nursing to sleep about a month ago for night time and naps. He nurses for a bit and then we stop, snuggle, and he goes to sleep. He still nurses and 2-3 times a day (first thing in the AM, before bed, and occasionally before nap time).
I have decided I am ready because the mornings have become a huge source of frustration for me. If my husband is with him and I am working a nighy shift or away for a night, he sleeps GREAT. But for me, he wake up at 5am. Ill let him nurse and then he freaks and wants to keep nursing all morning long. I write this as he just spent the last hour crying on and off because I wouldn't let him have a free for all with the milk. I am just ready to get sleep again.
Basically my question is, should I just do the bandaid trick and say it's all gone? Or does anyone have any other tips? I don't really want to use sucker buster or similar products.