u/cantinkofone

I am talking about guys between 18-25 who are fit for marriage yet they don’t qualify for it because either they are studying , doing part time or making low income.

Wouldn’t it be wise for women who are of similar age to accept the guys situation and be ok with no accommodation or low level accommodation?

But reality is guys are rejected by girls dad or the girl want well settled guy

Then the same young guys once they come into their 25-30s will then prefer younger women of 18-25 pool

You see where I am going ?

It’s a complete mess
May Allah guide us
As a younger guy you are stuck
As a older women you are stuck

I am talking about guys between 18-25 who are fit for marriage yet they don’t qualify for it because either they are studying , doing part time or making low income.

Wouldn’t it be wise for women who are of similar age to accept the guys situation and be ok with no accommodation or low level accommodation?

But reality is guys are rejected by girls dad or the girl want well settled guy

Then the same young guys once they come into their 25-30s will then prefer younger women of 18-25 pool

You see where I am going ?

It’s a complete mess
May Allah guide us
As a younger guy you are stuck
As a older women you are stuck