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Who is responsible for the Muslim marriage crisis?

Yes brothers you heard 99% of women don't marry for love.

The biggest lie that men where told was that women marry for love.

You see most women marry men for money and resources and assets so don't get fooled by women who say that they believe in love because they don't.

remember brothers 99% of women don't marry for love

I genuinely prefer modest/hijabi women when it comes to seeking marriage.

But a lot sisters who I have spoken to especially for marriage who do wear hijab or abaya are the complete opposite of what a modest woman is.

For example tight clothes but still wearing hijab

Or abaya but still wearing makeup

So the question why is it so hard to find a modest/hijabi women

Most criminals come from a single mom household and this needs to be said

in America, 41% of inmates come from single mother.

70%+ of the prison population in the US comes from single mom homes.

70% of incarcerated youth in the UK in 2022 came from single-parent homes, primarily headed by single mothers.

Why are criminals raised by single mothers

I have noticed that a lot of grievances that married men have regarding their wives, stems from the realisation that their wife is often quite incompetent. She may be emotionally volatile, or someone who cannot control her tongue, or someone who is quick to anger, or someone who is unable to do chores properly or cook properly.

As a guy, naturally it's frustrating and it can result in a lot of anger. However, one thing that we can learn from the actions of the Prophet Muhammad pbuh, and the actions of the companions is that, often you have to treat your wives like children, and even think of their temperament and fragility as such. And instead of anger a person should deal with sympathy with them due to their lack of control over their emotions and tongue. That is how the Prophet Muhammad pbuh dealt with his wives in cases of dispute and how the companions and best of men deal with their wives.