u/cantthinkofaname2023

A few years ago, I was bending to reach something and felt a ripping sensation in my lower back. Immediately after that, I started having severe premature ejaculation whenever I had sex (finishing within seconds). This has been really bad for my sex life and self esteem. And because it started right after my back injury, I am convinced it’s related. Plus, I have found cases online. See https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/7815609/

I am thinking about having surgery in the hopes that it corrects my ejaculatory issues. Sex is one of the most fulfilling parts of life and I am missing out. I have been living with this for 6 years.

I wonder:

Have any of you experienced this?
If you have and had surgery, did it help?
How has life been since surgery?

I have had other symptoms too. Right after the injury, I had back pain for days and, ever since, have felt a slight foot drop on that side of my body. I now sometimes trip on that side as though it’s a little harder to lift that leg than it is to lift my other one.

I now have chronic but mostly low level back pain. Once in awhile I get a flare up and the pain gets pretty severe. One such night was actually my wedding night. Talk about ruining the mood, plus my premature ejaculation.

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Minimal pain BUT premature ejaculation