u/cariboui

Hi, I don't know what to do... I told my partner I need a dramatic breast reduction, but then I found out that they can just GROW BACK even bigger. So I started referring to it as "top surgery" instead of "breast reduction". He confronted me about it last night, asking for clarification... I told him I can't let them grow back, and my family history would suggest they will.

He got really quiet, and I started crying (silently). I asked him if he wanted me there, but he asked me to be more specific. I said, "Is the answer different?" He got quiet again, so I went to sleep on the couch.

That was before midnight when he drove away, and he's still not back at 8am. He hasn't texted either.

Does anyone have experience with something like this?

I'm feeling overwhelmed.

I have always hated my uterus and breasts, but I didn't realize how bad it was until recently. And I now I feel like I absolutely need to do something about it.

I guess my question is... Had anyone else experienced this? And what did you do with it?

Thanks in advance 🩷