u/carl_weez_her

I’m rewatching for the millionth time and I just realized they gave scooter two completely different names. When he shows up at lilys wedding his name is bill, but in the flashback in the “twelve horny women” episode, he says his name is Jeff. It’s kind of irritating me that they changed it for no apparent reason.

I’m a little over 4 years post op and I’ve always used water based lube when dilating. I dated a pre op transfem person for a year and a half (we broke up last year) and she had a hard time penetrating me. Part of that was due to her HRT but also because I wasn’t as “slippery” as I could’ve been lol. We she and I recently hooked up again and I wouldn’t be surprised if it became a regular thing. She suggested oil based lube because that works for her when she bottoms, and I know my doctor had said no oil based lube while healing. I was wondering if anyone had experience in this area and/or suggestions of what to use. Water based lube cries out so fucking quickly. And I do get wet on my own, but not sopping. With dilating water based lube works fine, but any time I’m having something (or someone) go in and out of me repeatedly, I end up having to apply more lube throughout. Thank you in advance.

So I have a character who is a Selkie (a human that can transform into a seal—found in Irish and Scottish folklore), and I’ve been flipping between two names and I’m not sure which to go with.

Name 1: Cian (pronounced Kian). Pros: I like that the name is Irish, simple, and unique, and is most likely a name (or a spelling) that most people don’t know. Cons: I don’t know if people will know just by seeing it how to pronounce it (people may think it’s pronounced see-en, or sigh-ann) , and one of my other main characters (there’s 3) has a name that starts with a K (Konah), and I feel weird having 2/3 of the man characters have the same sound starting their name.

Name 2: Ronan. Pros: Irish name, straight forward pronunciation, means “little seal.” Cons: too common of a name (may not be recognized as Irish by readers), “little seal” being too on the nose and coming across as lazy or uncreative.