Did your BPD ex pull a complete "identity reset" after the breakup?
Hey everyone,
I'm trying to process something and wanted to see if others here experienced the same thing.
Did your quiet/pwBPD ex completely change right after things ended? Mine has suddenly adopted a whole new persona, jumped into a million new activities/hobbies, and is acting as if the entire relationship, the history, and all the damage just... never happened.
Also looking for somebody else new for replacement and desperately trying to join people in new activities.
It’s like watching a stranger walk around in their body, pretending to be this completely transformed, thriving person overnight.
Is this a common coping mechanism or part of the identity disturbance? Did they actually change, or is this just another cycle/mask until the next crash?
How did your ex act right after the split, and how did that "new version" play out over time?
Thanks a lot for your stories, I just want to know if what’s going to happen is predictable, so feel free to share your experiences.