help me bro ive been struggling with ts for so longgggg💔 i know it probably sounds like such a simple thing to figure out but i show sososoooooo many traits of both e6 and e7, if anyone could give any advice on ultimate 7 vs 6 tie breakers thatd be so much appreciated!!!!
OBVIOUSLY this question is very opinions based, but i still wanna know what everybody thinks (and why!!! i want explanations!!!) i think the best enneagrams personally are sp5, so9, so4 and sx7 but i cant pick just one answer😭 i have a feeling the most said answers will be e6 and e9 but yea im curious!!!
i really wanna know everyones thoughts on which enneagram they think is the worst at low points \^\^ i have some speculation of which enneagram will be the widest answer but um yea i wanna know what people think!!
online i hear soooo much trash talk on e4s, but ive never met one and i wanna know if theyre actually as bad as made out to be. idk based off descriptions i kinda like them!! obviously everyone is different but i feel like theres gotta be more bad or good of something right? but anyways, tell me your experiences with e4s!! and also if you know, what are their instinctual variants? :D
so, im new to typology so this could be a silly question, but obviously its clear and known that e7s try to distract their feelings of pain with joy. i have read soooo much about that, but you know what i havent read about? how they act when its literally impossible for them to distract themselves, how they act when their negative feelings are lingering and inescapable, etc. what happens to an e7 in a time like that? because theres no way that they can keep positive about absolutely every dark moment..right?😭
hii! desc here! ⬇️
the idealised version of myself is much more confrontational, but also sweeter and more bubbly and warm. but that doesnt necessarily mean im non confrontational, mean, boring and cold because im not. i already own the traits of my idealised self, theyre just much weaker. i only straightforwardly confront people im comfortable with, which is like...one person. i am sweet and bubbly somewhat, but you have to be someone i like to see that. i am warm, but i can come across cold to people who i dont know very well or dont trust.
i get very ashamed with myself whenever i mess things up for myself. when my mind pulls something out that makes me miserable for the next few days, when i get people mad at me for saying something backhanded or easily misinterpreted, things like that. it feels like i lack being able to verbally express things on the spot
i move forward in life for two things, 1.what i love, and 2.for my future dream. this past year i finally discovered what i actually think my purpose is, now it lingers in me 24/7, but in a good way ^^, i consider it when making every decision. then ofcourse, the things i love! my pets, my friends even though i dont really have any, my family, my house, my favourite foods and drinks and places and youtubers and just everything i cherish
the way i react towards criticism can really differ on how its given to me. if someone actually goes by the more aggressive definition of criticism and gives it to me in an angry, yell-ish way i will improve what they ask of me, but they have totally lost my trust, they will get it back when they do an action that truly makes my day, like complimenting me or just doing anything to show that they trust or like me. if its given to me sweeter and more gentle parenting, i will probably think higher of the person, but unfortunately im less likely to follow their advice😓
its usually rare that someone heavily dislikes me because i dont pull many actions for someone to think so low of me unless its someone like my mom, but i hate when people dislike me. like i said with the criticism thing, my reactions are different based off the way that they show the dislike, but usually i just match whatever they do, unless theyre asking for a fight or smth like that😭 in times like that its better to be the more mature one
the relationship with my maternal figure is, id say pretty good! shes very lenient, forgiving, empathetic and helpful. if i had to name her negative traits, id say she can be unjust, hypocritical and victimising. she is an amazing figure in my life, however as good of a parent as she is, i feel like she brought me up maybe a little careless of real life teachings? such as hygiene, cooking, diet, health, things like that, so i kinda had to learn those myself. well, she absolutely does care about me in those aspects, she just doesnt take action. she says things that she doesnt commit to very often which can be misleading.
the relationship with my paternal figure is different. i absolutely adore him, and look up to him a lot. he is confrontational, confident, joyous and SO funny, however as much as i love him, growing up with him made me forced to have an image of him that makes his negatives more important. he is also lying, angry, stubborn and lacks almost any empathy unless he has gone through the exact same situation as you. everyone in my house was intimidated by him, i truly wasnt, but the rest of my family rubbed that impression off onto me, which meant any large mistake he made (e.g. cheating👀) didnt make me love him any less, but it forced me to be more awkward with him.
if you need any more info dont be afraid to ask!! ive been thinking 6w7 but man i dont really have a clue