Hi everyone! My pup Dizzy just turned 1! He is scheduled for his neuter on August 18 — however i’m now feeling some guilt over this as I have read it’s best to wait longer. How long did my fellow sheepie owners wait to neuter their male pups? TIA, Dizzy pics for fun :)
im 28, my older sister has been an addict since i was 18-19. Our relationship has wildly deteriorated over that timespan, we currently live on opposite sides of the country. I didn’t talk to her for 4 years and just recently started talking to her again. Does anyone else find this so incredibly exhausting to not be able to directly say what’s on your mind to your sibling? I get so frustrated at always having to be the ‘bigger person’ in our relationship because shes an addict and refuses to accept any kind of responsibility for her life.
She recently asked if she’s invited to my wedding and I told her no and she said something along the lines of “well i just thought as your sister i’d be invited” and i had to stop talking before blowing up. she’s my older sister yet i have always taken care of her. ive spent money on her, gotten into fights for her and been emotionally wrecked over her for years in the pits of her addiction. she has zero idea the amount of sacrifice, emotional turmoil or personal impact her addiction has had on me and our family. she does not apologize for anything. it enrages me that i can’t tell her she’s been a shit excuse for a sister so why on gods green earth would she be invited to the one day i get to celebrate my partner and me? anyways. just ranting. i wasn’t sure if anyone else gets super fed up at having to constantly hold their tongue about how they feel with their siblings