10 Days Sober
10 days sober and hoping I can make it to my 11th day. I'm praying through His prayers and guidance to continue on this journey. He is watching out for me, I'm sure.
Christian Man Struggling
I am a 34-year-old straight, married, Christian dad of 3 sons who is struggling today. I'm 10 days sober and I'm really pent up right now. My wife is asleep and I'm really needing someone to talk with. Christians preferred.
Favorite Bible Verse for Tough Times
Bros, what's one Bible verse that's helping you stay strong right now?
I'm a husband and father, and I'm trying to build a life that reflects Christ more than my impulses. Some days are easier than others
I'd love to hear what verses, prayers, habits, or lessons God has been using in your life lately. Always looking to learn from men who are further down the road than I am.
DMs open.
Semen as Christ Oil
Something that's been helping me, and I wanted to share it.
I've started thinking about my semen as something sacred (I've been calling it "Christ Oil"), and it's been helping me keep it in my body or reserve it for my wife only.
When temptation hits, I try to remind myself that this is a gift from God.
Still early in the journey, but for the first time in a while, I feel excited about a new way of thinking instead of just trying to survive another streak.
"Therefore honor God with your bodies." — 1 Corinthians 6:20
Christian Brothers
Could use a few Christian brothers to talk to today.
I'm a husband and father of three boys, and I'm coming off a relapse after making it a week. The shame has been hitting me pretty hard, and while I've stayed clean since then, my mind has been all over the place.
I'm not really looking for advice as much as fellowship. Just some men who love Jesus, understand this battle, and wouldn't mind checking in throughout the day.
If that's you, I'd appreciate hearing from you. God bless.
Leaning Into Jesus and Bible
I know this is likely the wrong forum, but I've struggled with my journey for so long. I've got a wife and three sons (34 year old here) and am refocusing on getting better so that I can be a better role model for my sons (eldest is 8, so wanting to make sure that I'm demonstrating good behaviors). Finding a lot of wisdom in Christ and the bible.
Just Day 1 But Hopeful
I'm so excited to start reading a few books recommended in this channel. I've been a sinner but I know I can do better. Feeling optimistic today. It's all about wanting to be a good role model for my three sons. Christ is good.
Almost Led Another Believer Into Relapse
Hi all, I have sinned. Badly. I spoke with another no-fap Christian last night and unfortunately I lost my battle during our conversation. My brother in this journey was trying to get me to stay away from temptation but I gave in. I feel so ashamed and hope my Christian brother and Jesus can forgive me. I know only He heals. Needing His help even more today than ever.
Church Day
Married dad of three up early to get to church. Why is my mind clouded with so many triggering thoughts? I know I need to just get up and go and that it will all be better once I'm at church. It's just getting my sons and me ready and getting out the door. I know I can do this, just needed to get it off my chest. It really is one day at a time. Day 7 here.
Married Christian Man in Need of Accountability Partner
Hello NoFap community,
I'm new here and looking for accountability partners. I'm a 34-year-old white married Christian man who has been struggling with both pornography and infidelity. I want to become a better husband, father, and follower of Christ, and I know I can't do this alone.
This is a very private journey for me, so I'm hoping to connect with others one-on-one for mutual accountability, encouragement, and honest conversations.
Thank you, and God bless.
Christian in Need of Accountability Partner
Hello NoFap community,
I'm new here and looking for accountability partners. I'm a 34-year-old white married Christian man who has been struggling with both pornography and infidelity. I want to become a better husband, father, and follower of Christ, and I know I can't do this alone.
This is a very private journey for me, so I'm hoping to connect with others one-on-one for mutual accountability, encouragement, and honest conversations.
Thank you, and God bless.
Christian in Need of Accountability Partner
Hello NoFap community,
I'm new here and looking for accountability partners. I'm a 34-year-old white married Christian man who has been struggling with both pornography and infidelity. I want to become a better husband, father, and follower of Christ, and I know I can't do this alone.
This is a very private journey for me, so I'm hoping to connect with others one-on-one for mutual accountability, encouragement, and honest conversations. If you're interested, send me a DM and I can give you a Session link.
Thank you, and God bless.