u/chuyeah

context: Recently accepted that I like girls, but I have zero game.

I (21F) am completely new to this. I’ve only recently gotten comfortable with the idea of being into girls and opening myself up to the idea of a relationship/fling as a whole. I really want to start putting myself out there, but I am honestly so lost. Ideally, I’d love an organic encounter for my first experience with a girl—but the problem is, I cannot flirt for fuck’s sake. I just don't know how to make that shift from "friendly conversation" to "romantic/flirty connection." i am already awkward with most encounters. I figured trying online flirting first might be a good way to practice, test the waters, and build up my confidence before trying to navigate it in person.

I accidentally placed an order on a Sunday night but cancelled it just a few minutes later. i’ve already confirmed via a printed Statement of Account that the amount was definitely deducted from my balance. however, even though the platform says the refund was issued 11 business days ago, nothing has shown up in my account yet.

Has anyone else experienced this long of a wait for a debit card reversal? How long does BDO usually take to process these?