u/codyjones88

Have 2 kids, 6 and 1, and considering another. We have solid income for where we live and so many great activities are free because of the advantages of big city life. Considering adding one more but I wonder if it will feel so chaotic when they’re all older, or if it will be extra fun? Right now it sounds awesome.

I also think I want them to have more social connections, because we actually don’t have a ton of family here. So by adding another they may have more support as adults. Or this a delusion? I know it’s a crap-shoot if they actually get along or not but at least by adult hood siblings usually connect again.

Any parents of teens in cities with 3+ in here can share wisdom?