u/collegedroperr

I'm 19 years old. I use our family PC for gaming. A days ago I was looking through some folders to free up space. That's when I found a folder named 'Interfaith' . I was curious so I opened it.

What I found really upset me.

There were intimate videos of my mom with my next door neighbour. That was bad enough.. Some videos had another man too. I don't know who he is. I thought maybe he's a friend of my stepdad. I really have no idea.

I closed everything away.. The images are stuck in my head. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it.

The hardest part is that I love my mom more than anyone. Shes always been there for me. Now every time I see her I remember what I accidentally saw. I feel guilty for finding those videos. I also feel angry that they were on the family computer that I use every day.

I don't know if my stepdad knows about the videos. I don't know if it's something they're both okay, with. I don't want to jump to conclusions. I don't know the story.

Since then I've been avoiding everyone at home. I can't focus on games or college. I even have trouble sleeping. I feel like I learned something I wasn't supposed to know.

Please help and feel free to DM for any type of advice

I'm 19 years old. I use our family PC for gaming. A days ago I was looking through some folders to free up space. That's when I found a folder named 'Interfaith' . I was curious so I opened it.

What I found really upset me.

There were intimate videos of my mom with my next door neighbour. That was bad enough.. Some videos had another man too. I don't know who he is. I thought maybe he's a friend of my stepdad. I really have no idea.

I closed everything away.. The images are stuck in my head. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it.

The hardest part is that I love my mom more than anyone. Shes always been there for me. Now every time I see her I remember what I accidentally saw. I feel guilty for finding those videos. I also feel angry that they were on the family computer that I use every day.

I don't know if my stepdad knows about the videos. I don't know if it's something they're both okay, with. I don't want to jump to conclusions. I don't know the story.

Since then I've been avoiding everyone at home. I can't focus on games or college. I even have trouble sleeping. I feel like I learned something I wasn't supposed to know.

Please help and feel free to DM for any type of advice

Throw way account

I’m 18M old and still recovering from the most gut-wrenching email of my life. Someone sent me nude photos of my single mom (42) with our neighbor, anonymously.

The thing is, we’ve always been close, and she’s dated plenty since Dad left, but this… this is different. It's not just the betrayal, I can handle that, it's knowing there's someone out there that *wanted* to hurt.

Problem is, I haven't come out to her yet.

TL;DR: Anonymous creep sends me nudes of my single mom with the neighbor. Haven’t dealt with her yet. Any advice appreciated before I go completely insane