u/colt-45-659

Hello there :) I am going abroad in the next couple of weeks and wouldn't mind a little bit of colour (I am very pale and avoid sitting in the sun, but I would love to have just a tiny bit of a natural glow, and something to do when my little one is asleep!)

If anyone has any gradual recommendations that would result in even the lightest of tans, please let me know! I have tried Bondi sands most recently and it was good but probably slightly darker than I was looking for.

I am based in the UK!

Thank you.

The guy I am dating is usually very affectionate and warm when we communicate but will (very) occasionally be radio silent for almost a day. He never leaves my messages on read but will take longer and make less effort. I have noticed he goes kind of distant for about a week after we have seen each other (we're long distance) then gradually comes out of it and we're back to mutual effort/if anything him naturally initiating more.

Any ideas? It can feel like he doesn't even like me that much during these times.