u/coralreef121

Hi everyone, I'm a 31F, and l've never found the love and depth I crave in relationships. It feels like a lifelong delay, and the wait is becoming incredibly painful.

To add to the anxiety, an astrologer once told my mom that my life will only truly "blossom" after marriage, which makes the current stagnant feeling even harder to bear. His words kind of track with where I am right now: I'm currently unemployed and going back to school and have never really found stability despite being told I'm very intelligent and intuitive my whole life.

For additional context, I was born in India but moved abroad when I was a child with my family.

I'm looking for some insight on:

When will I meet my partner? (are there any upcoming Dasha periods or transits triggering partnership?)
Marriage timing is welcome too, but I would really like to know when we'll actually meet to ease some of my anxiety!

How or where am I likely to meet him? (are there any placement or aspects that give a clue to where and how we might meet?)

Thank you so much to anyone who takes the time to look at my chart I genuinely really appreciate your wisdom and guidance! 🙏🏼

31F, never been in a relationship. Really want to move on with my life and experience love but for some reason haven’t been able to find it. My birth details are in the top left corner of the chart attached in case you need them

I would love your take on when my stars may finally be aligning!

Any help would be greatly appreciated!! 🫶🏽

Edit: Sorry I totally had my birth time wrong! Please see the updated chart in the comments! Thank youu

Hi everyone, I am 31 years old (female) and I have a deep desire and ache for partnership, but I’ve felt lifelong stagnation in love. I’m curious to know based on my chart why I may have never been in a relationship? How can I start working with my chart to invite partnership? Does my chart tell me to focus on other things other than partnership?

For a little background I’ve had a really tough childhood with emotional neglect, lots of verbal/mental abuse from my Dad, also was assaulted in other ways in my childhood and I was overweight most of my life so never felt good enough to even be perceived let alone be loved.

Since I was overweight throughout my life due to PCOS compounded with some depression in my college era I did not make myself available nor did any men really show interest in me. I saw my friends from high school and college experience crushes and first loves, and I always felt ashamed to even say I had a crush because I didn't want anyone to make me feel more unlovable than I already felt. I also did not want any pity from women around me, so, all though I had lots of friends and was popular due to my sense of humor/outgoing personality I always felt really really lonely in my experiences.

I then lost some weight, had some character building years from a lot of personal hardships and went to therapy which opened me up a bit more. I have since began to see that men are attracted to me, but always fear that once they have to really see me, they'll immediately feel repulsed. So, I'm constantly on guard and maybe a little suspicious/analytical of others interest in me.

In terms of patterns, I often feel like I'm always the saviour in all my relationships. I end up doing all of the emotional labour to help people understand themselves better and to save them from themselves. I also have had to carry a lot of my family's burdens, specifically related to saving and protecting family assets, while my older sister, or parents did not feel the same sense of responsibility.

I just want to be in a stable, loving relationship where I feel seen and loved for just being me and not for what I can do for them. I want children, I've always felt it in my soul that I'm a true nurturer and all this taking care of others has been practice for the real thing.

I feel so blocked in love, and other things like my career. I've been told that my life will blossom in all aspects only after I find my partner so this stagnation in other areas feels even more painful.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!!

Hi everyone! I'm a 31 year old female, that's left hand dominant.

I have a deep desire for partnership but still haven't found it in my life. Based on my palm when will I get married? Will I have a fulfilling relationship? When will I have children and how many?

Is there anything else I should be concerned about?

Any help would be greatly appreciated!