r/AskAstrologers

Men frequently sexualize me from minimal interaction. I get multiple dms every day on my private account all from really pervy guys. Mind you my profile pic is just a selfie of me smiling. Nothing else is showing. It's not how i dress, how i talk or anything. They literally initiate it. And it happens irl too, just random stares that are not innocent.
Truly it makes me feel disgusting and whenever something starts up with a guy i just keep reading into it and not being comfortable.
Is there a way to work with or shift this energy?

I am fully a Scorpio rising and connect to my cancer sun but I relate so little to my Aquarius moon. I’m deeply emotional and involved and struggle with anything surface level.

was in a scary situation just now as our neighbor's house burned down. i thought our house would also be caught on fire, thankfully we're okay. however, this is my 2nd time experiencing something like this. the 1st time was our house literally burning down. so what i thought a normal day would trigger traumatic memories for me. what transits indicate the situation?

Just realized that the Aug 12 solar eclipse was at 20 degrees of Leo, which is my exact ascendant degree (and is also 1 degree from a square to my sun which is also my chart ruler)

I've been extremely stressed for months, and much of that is due to having to move and not having great prospects of where to go - lots of stressful factors I won't get into.

That does check out with the 4th house activated, but I would assume that am eclipse on my natal Ascendant would have an affect on my body, my appearance, or any way others see me, right? I'm not sure that's happening so I'm nervous there's something going on with my reputation or my appearance that I haven't realized.

I also am not sure what one should expect from a solar eclipse transit at all so I feel like this is a good time for me to learn...

Insights welcome, thanks!

Hi all, as the title says, I'd love to understand how to better utilise the pretty deep power of Pluto to alchemise my 6th house.

I definitely struggle with self-imposed routines/the everday mundane. Externally-imposed routines feel very calming and wholesome to me (e.g work routines, uni routines, rules, laws, the sun rising and setting etc), but setting my own routines, daily life, schedule etc feels so unnecessary to me and at times very very limiting, boring and DULL. I looove my freedom. My freedom to do what feels good in each and every moment, and to not be trapped by some mentally-imposed 'this is my bedtime routine so I must do it'.'

Any native Pluto in 6th house-ers here? Would love to hear your experiences.

Do I just have to 'get good' at routine, as my North Node Taurus suggests? Or as a the weird-and-wonderful Aquarian that I am, should I become comfortable with creating an everyday life that sits outside the bounds of what people normally define as 'normal'?

What to do with all that Pluto energy...

Got into a car accident 3 years ago and always wanted to know what was going on astrologically that day. The car in front of me braked last minute super hard, and so did I, but the car behind me rear ended me. Thankfully we were both okay and our cars didn't take on too much damage.

I'm thinking it could be activity going on in the 3rd or 9th house since those houses rule travel/commuting, but I don't think anything major was transiting those houses. Could someone give any insight please?

I have struggled with this paradox for most of my life and sometimes confuse those closest to me because it seems like I always want something very different than how I am perceived depending on the person. I know this trait isn’t entirely uncommon across the board for many people, but mine has become more drastic in adulthood. I also seem to lean into being private much more easily, but have more of a desire for a public life much of the time though it is rarely acted on. Are there multiple indicators of why this is in my chart?

I’m very new to reading my own chart but it seems like this Aug 12 eclipse interacts with my Aquarius stellium and I’m wondering what it means?!

I'm pretty inexperienced with astrology, but from what I've gathered, the 12th house is about the subconscious and things that are "hidden". Venus is obviously the planet of love and relationships, and being in Virgo is something of a hindrance. And my Venus also squares Saturn, which from what I can tell also isn't good either. So I'm curious what this placement says about me.

For context, I don't have much experience with romantic relationships, and talking about that kind of stuff usually makes me shy up, even though I'm normally more outgoing. Whenever I get feelings for someone, I always just keep them to myself (sometimes for years) out of both fear and not really knowing how to approach those sorts of feelings with other people. The only kinda real relationship I've ever had was long-distance, and I kept it a secret from everyone else in my life. The handful of advances that have been made towards me have made me feel really awkward, even when I like the other person back. Is there a way for me to become more comfortable, or am I just doomed to be inert in love?

Hi! It's been really hard to get back to reality. It's something that I have been doing since childhood, I come from a dysfunctional family and have been bullied at elementary school. It's been difficult for me to make friends and the daydreaming thing had helped me understand social interactions, because I used to get really angry when I was a child, and by day dreaming I was able to see myself from the outside.

It stopped when I was in my twenty-something.

But right now, having been a mom, unemployed, and trying to finish my art school career for the third time (yes... I wasn't mentally able to finish when I was younger), having broken up with my partner, it's getting so hard not to put my imagination to work in fantasy all the time.

I have talked about this in therapy but it's just not working.

Is there something in my chart that might tell me why this is happening??

I end up so tired that it is hard for me to even finish my art school assignments, I can't bring myself to draw anything, like I can't focus to achieve my most desired dream: to be an illustrator and make a living out of it.

EDIT: and it's something I mention in a reply: I feel I lack discipline, motivation, consistency, strength, ... I may feel like I don't have the energy to do and achieve the many things I have to do daily, but I don't know how to build myself up to do the very thing that I love, everyday... and at least maintain my excessive daydreaming for just a few moments.

Thanks in advance!!

What the title says! Any insight is appreciated :)

Beginner here! Can someone please tell me what the like highlighted lines mean like the extra thick ones? And is that the same as the highlighted square around some of the things at the bottom? Hope this makes any sense lol! Also is there a difference between the red and blue lines? Tysm to anyone who answers and helps <3

For context, I’ve spent a good chunk of my life desiring friendship. I have had multiple, years long (5+) friendships with people, but it all falls apart and ends when I realize the friendship is actually superficial, and the feelings of closeness are not reciprocated. Either that, or the other person confesses that they always saw me as weird, boring, unstable, and only years down the line I hit some final straw and they stop wanting to be my friend. Or they just ghost me completely!

In my last “friendship” that lasted five years, I realized that the other person’s behavior towards me all this time was actually very hurtful (degrading my looks and ethnicity in the form of “banter”). When I confronted them about this, they just stopped responding to my messages completely. No apology or closure.

So, is there something in my chart that points to having years long friendships that feel stable at first, but end abruptly? Is there anything in my chart pointing to actual, long lasting, and fulfilling relationships that don’t end? Curious to hear what others think!

When I was a kid I was more extroverted and had lots of friends, then ever since my teens I've not been so lucky with friends, I often feel like the odd one out, and I become a different person around people im not 100% comfortable with. I have a lot of self hate because of this but deep down I like myself as a person?

also my life is like one battle after another lol. ill have a good year where things are nice(r) but then something changes and it sucks again for several years.

thanks!

I feel like I really struggle to be communicative when I have to let someone down - and I often end up doing the crueler thing and just ghosting. Similarly, I sometimes procrastinate small, mundane tasks until they snowball. Anything in my chart that would suggest why that’s the case? (Not sure if the two are related.)

Hello, female Leo here. I recently did my chart for the first time and was surprised by all of the Virgo. I’ve been described as icy in love and too badass at work. Most people like me, but some don’t trust me or I rub them the wrong way. Could you provide any insight? Thank you!