u/crazypenguin43

Has anyone heard about semifinalist decisions today?

I’ve been reading a lot of mixed info on here so I wanted to just ask directly for info. I’ve had the app for 1.5 years and had it paused/unpaused while I went through a situationship. When I first got the app my pics/prompts weren’t that good, I was in a diff city, and I had a lot of strict dealbreakers for things like religion that really restricted the ppl I was seeing on the app accidentally. I’m now in a diff city and I got rid of the dealbreakers but I feel like my profile is barely being shown even tho I have a good profile that my friends have all reviewed. How exactly can I delete and remake my profile entirely without getting banned? Can I just delete and remake in a few days with a diff phone number with same pics/prompts as rn?

Ex-situationship (FA) panicked and pulled away and rejected me right when things got real even though he was the one escalating. Then once I cut him off he had trouble letting go with monitoring me. This was a few months ago and I’ve been working a lot on healing myself and learning about attachment theory/identifying problematic things in myself too. I was talking with a close guy friend today who is mutual friends with the FA and he pointed out that he was confused why I liked him since he thinks the FA is a very boring and dry person, and that I brought the personality into the dynamic. I thought he was mostly joking but when I actually sat with it, I realized that the FA would always ask me lots of questions about my inner world and mirror everything I said, including my lifestyle habits that I knew he didn’t actually follow. But he would rarely share things about himself, even up to the last day before he pulled away, it was always him trying to show how he’s similar to me. I think I just realized that I was in love with essentially myself, because he was just trying to be me. But based on what my guy friend said today, I wonder if avoidants also tend to be boring with their other friends too? If so why is that the case