Parent unequipped to manage after their spouse passes
I'm not really even sure how to word this, my dad's in the hospital and he handles all of the bills and money and my mom doesn't know anything. Not how much or when or what is due. I'm a little concerned as to what steps need to be taken to get her access to bank accounts/ bills and how to pay them/ ect. I can help her but I also have zero information and access.Honestly I don't even know where to start, my mom can't even keep track of when oil changes are due in her car or pump her own gas for example. My dad is unable to speak more than a word or 2 and is having trouble thinking clearly because they have him on some pretty strong pain medications. Getting information from him is not likely going to happen atm.
Can anyone suggest a place to start? My dad's been in the hospital for the 3rd time in the last 10 days. I'm admittedly a little stressed and probably not thinking very clearly so I really appreciate anyone's input.. thanks ahead of time folks.