Opinion regarding relationship
Hello everyone. I did post once in here so some of you might know this story. I (23) had been seeing a guy (27) for like almost three months. He was really sweet, took me out on restaurant dates, museum, pubs and also made me my favourite dish one day. We had been on three dates. He is very consistent with texting me as well. I really thought we had a solid connection. We didnt have any labels or anything like that but he did tell me he sees me as more than just a girl that he is seeing. And whenever he hangs out with his friends or is somewhere outside, he always makes sure to text me during those times so i really liked that dynamic.
It all began crumbling down when this month i got a really bad case of oral thrush. It was super bad that i had to be hooked on codeine and IV drips. I couldnt eat or drink or sleep or even swallow my own saliva because of the pain for two weeks. It was also the same time when he booked a trip to Georgia with his two friends for 11 days. Before the trip, he was talking to me with consistency. He even sent me flowers and a card to make me happy and i felt like the happiest girl in the world.
But then he landed in Georgia, and he basically started ghosting me. It turned to just one text in the morning and that’s it. But he posted insta stories. I did remember telling him to keep me up to date and that i value consistent communication and that i know he might get busy every now and then, but to atleast have a convo every now and then. But idk why, on day 3 i started losing my mind. I thought to myself that if i was on a trip i would have atleast sent him a hi or something. I got a bit irrational and doubling that because of the sickness i got mad at him and i broke up with him ( without talking abt it, stupid i know). But he just accepted the breakup and didnt even ask me why. He responded too nonchalantly. Then i started realising that i made a bad decision and called him that night itself. He didnt pick up but then i started spiralling because i felt like i was burdening him and i thought to not ruin his trip. So i waited until his trip ended and then i called him. I told him everything and i apologized to him and that i really missed him and cared abt him and that i was being really irrational. Then he says we are fine but he found another girl in Georgia and that he will not be coming back to me no matter how much i try. He said he was serious abt her just like how he was serious abt me. I apologized to him and i cut the call and i blocked him everywhere. I felt devastated. I thought to myself how did he move on so quickly from me, and how did he find someone so quickly? Or was he already with her and was that the reason he started ghosting me?
My brother says he was being an ass because everyone carries their phone with them and he could have texted me atleast. And he could have atleast asked me why i broke up with him and that he never cared about me or saw anything serious in me since he found someone so quickly.
At the moment i am really in the dumps. I feel really sad and guilty. I really liked him too…. I feel like such a failure. I feel used up because i had sex with him one time too.
What do you think? Did i overreact? What do i do?