u/crystalsong47

running SUPER hot ??

i've been on cymbalta for about a month now, and i really like it! i've tried a couple different medications & i had really bad reactions to all of them, and finally i'm feeling better. literally my only issue is that i've been running insanely hot. my roommate & i keep out apartment pretty cool usually, but lately i've been sweating all night & cannot sleep unless the AC is set on 60 or lower. also with it getting warmer outside, i'm noticing that i start sweating almost instantly when i'm outside & it tends to make me really annoyed & overstimulated. has anyone else dealt with this, or am i going crazy???

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u/crystalsong47 — 3 days ago

getting married as an only child?

me (19f) and my boyfriend (20m) have been talking about marriage lately. i'm halfway done with college and we both want to get married pretty soon after i graduate & settle down together. i love the idea of having a family, but the thought of having to share my space 24/7 and never have an "escape" is stressing me out so badly.

my boyfriend stays over at my apartment almost every weekend & sometimes a few nights out of the week. of course i love hanging out with him, but after a few days of constant interaction, i'm so tired of it. i feel stressed because my space is longer my own. his stuff will be everywhere & it really stresses me out. even if i ask for some alone time & he goes out to the living room while i nap or something in my room, just knowing he's here makes me anxious.

with all the marriage talk & realizing i'm almost to the age where it makes sense to think marriage, kids & moving in together, i can't help but think i'm never going to be comfortable in my own space again. has anyone else felt this, and if so, how'd you deal with it?? i think growing up so alone really affected me in the sense that i can't imagine myself spending EVERYDAY with the same person, even though i absolutely adore my boyfriend.

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u/crystalsong47 — 12 days ago