Bad experience going to gay bathhouse/sauna with boyfriend
Had a bad experience going to a gay sauna bathhouse with my boyfriend. He's very experienced at this kind of thing over many years while this was only my second time.
I have a chronic illness that randomly affects my sensitivity and ability to get an erection. I had an episode while at the sauna and I persevered for nearly 3 hours but my mood and sex drive cratered so I decided to leave. What made matters worse is my boyfriend proceeded the whole time as though nothing was wrong continuing to play with numerous guys and even when I told him I was leaving he couldn't pull himself away for long enough to see if I was okay.
It took an hour and a half after I left to be concerned enough to contact me and seemingly only because he sniffed some amyl and it gave him a headache.
Am I overreacting being pissed? Our relationship isn't fully open. We only play outside the relationship when both are present.