Asking woman out after 2-4 days of chatting, is that a mistake? Too early?

A follow up to my previous post as it happened again. I was chatting with somebody for 4 days. She started off our chat with high energy. Multi sentence replies so I matched that. Thought we had a good vibe going so I asked her out. She immediately stopped replying. It's been 2 days so I assume she isn't interested. Now I'm rethinking if I'm asking people out too early because this keeps happening.

Open to everyone's thoughts, but any woman want to chime in? How long do you want to chat before being asked out?

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u/danknessoverlord — 3 days ago

Why do people refuse to surrender/FF when the game is over?

I'm not talking about down a few kills. I'm talking about the score is 4-20, they took dragon twice and we lost every lane our jungler is 0/6, they took every first tower in all lanes and it's only 17 minutes into the game. I don't get it. Why not just FF to save time and hop into another match?

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u/danknessoverlord — 5 days ago

People unmatching/stop replying the moment you ask them out is pretty common huh?

Been on Hinge for 1 year. This has happened to me a handful of times. We're having a decent chat. Maybe 5-10 messages each over 2-4 days. I ask them out. They unmatch or stop replying. I never understood this. I know nobody is obligated to meet up and nobody owes me anything, but isn't the point of a dating app to meet people you've been having a decent chat with to see if there a connection? I only match people that has "long term" listed. It always seems like we're having a good chat with both of us sending multiple sentence replies, but I guess a lot of people are only on here for pen pals?

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u/danknessoverlord — 8 days ago

Thinking about returning my foster after only 4 days

Feeling guilty over considering returning my foster. I'm exhausted and can't match his energy and he's a bit too big for my preferences. He's 80lb and I'm more used to dogs in the 25-50lb range.

Is this traumatic for the dog always have a changing environment? Do shelters really dislike people only fostering for a few days? I did teach him "sit" and he trusts me enough for belly rubs so I'd like to think I did some good.

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u/danknessoverlord — 11 days ago

Having nobody to depend on is really hard sometimes

Dinner is pan fried chuck steak with asparagus and homemade tortilla chips with coke zero.

I'm 31 and being an adult has been hard lately. Been living alone for 10 years now and I don't know why, but recently it's starting to get to me that I have nobody I can rely on. I have to do everything myself which has never bothered me, but sometimes it's overwhelming. Sometimes I just want to not have to think about what to eat and have somebody make that choice for me, little things like that. Or when I get sick and just want to lay in bed and have somebody take care of me. I'm close with my family, but they are on the opposite side of the state.

Feeling burnt out and don't know what to do. Mostly work related due to being forced back into the office after 6 years of remote, but also due to getting older and general life shit. I tried making changes to my life. Lost my enjoyment of video games. Still workout, but it's not fun anymore. Started boxing and it's been a great time where I can zone out and not have to think about anything. Started trying to date. Lots of ups and downs, mostly downs. Started traveling. Spent 2 weeks on a solo cross country trip in the spring. Have a 10 day trip planned for the fall.

u/danknessoverlord — 21 days ago

What does a typical class at your gym look like?

Just curious how other gyms are structured.

Our classes are roughly 75 mins.

10 mins of warm up typically jumping rope

3x3min rounds of pad work, then switch with your partner so 6 rounds total

3 rounds of drilling with partner

2-3 rounds sparring

30 sec rest between each round

10 mins conditioning burn out/cool down/stretch

I noticed we rarely hit the heavy bags. It's something people do on their own time or coach gathers all the new people and have them learn techniques on the heavy bags.

We also have 2 days dedicated to sparring. Just 8-10 rounds of sparring and that's it.

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u/danknessoverlord — 24 days ago