u/de4dgirlwalkin

sometimes it's hard express my opinion without having to explain myself.

A few minutes ago, I was in my university sharing with my friends, i was watching reels with one of my friends, we were laughing but suddenly in his reels fyp appears a video of a boy holding his girlfriend by the waist in different places, like a compilation. I laughed because it was like a jumpscare taking into account that we were watching memes, and then my friend \[he's single\] shows it to my other friend \[he's in a relationship\] and he says "I cah do that" I said to my single friend "you wish" and they he says "i wish", so my taken friend said to me "You wish too" and I said while laughing "I don't need it" and he said like "that's what they say..." like, assuming I'm just saying that to lie.

im wondering if it's better just to pretend Im craving those things like them or just stay silent.

I know it's not big deal, just hits different.

Hii, I'm (f17) and it's been almost a year since i discovered I'm in the aro spectrum, I feel more comfortable now knowing that, l don't label myself as bisexual but I feel attracted to both genders (mostly women).

now, I've been lately thinking I might be ace because I feel like very comfortable flirting and doing sexual jokes with my intimate friends, but if someone says something like that to me but in a serious way I can easily freak out because I can feel the heat when im watching sex scenes whether it's straight, gay or sapphic but when I think about myself in that position, being physically touched I dont really feel comfortable, I dont even want to get naked in front of somebody but sometimes im curious about how could it be...

im confused, what do y'all think? any suggestion?

pd: my first language is not English so im sorry if im not making myself clear JSJSJ.