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Hoe voelt het om moeder te willen zijn? Helaas zit ik met de moeilijkste dilemma die ik me ooit kon voorstellen. Ik weet namelijk niet of ik moeder wil worden. Het gaat van ja naar nee en daarna naar misschien. Ik voel me nieuwsgierig over deze ervaring, maar ik wordt overspoeld door pijn en beperkingen die deze ervaring met zich mee brengt. Hierdoor hoor ik mijn eigen stem niet: wat wil ik eigenlijk in het leven? Daarom vraag ik me af hoe het voelt als je zeker weet dat je wel een kindje wilt hebben. Het is misschien en hele vage vraag maar ik ben oprecht benieuwd daar de inzichten en ervaringen van de anderen.

…which day do you think will have the best vibes in Amsterdamse bos?🙂

I have been exploring myself and hobbies to take on in order to keep myself away from screens and to make life more enjoyable. Since forever I’ve been struggling with a chronic boredom and have been thinking that no activity interests me enough to make me put effort into it. Recently, however, I’ve realized that I genuinely enjoy basically all kinds of physical activity. I go to the gym 3-4 times a week to do weights and zone 2 cardio, but I’d like to move further and learn something new that will challenge me, help me fight my chronic boredom, but also keep me engaged. What would you guys recommend? Something realistic for 29 y.o.woman having a fulltime office job:)

Where do you guys buy fabrics? Apart from the stoffenmarkt at Blaak and Schröder.

What the title says.. it is embarrassing to admit, but my dopamine-hooked brain will search for gratification everywhere. I removed all distracting apps (instagram, TikTok, YouTube, etc). But now whenever I have a break I will start scrolling supermarket apps, Vinted, initiating conversations with ChatGPT.. I feel like the only thing that would work is buying an old Nokia. However, I can’t get rid of all those apps entirely for obvious reasons. Anyone dealing with the same dilemma?

What the title says.. it is embarrassing to admit, but my dopamine-hooked brain will search for gratification everywhere. I removed all distracting apps (instagram, TikTok, YouTube, etc). But now whenever I have a break I will start scrolling supermarket apps, Vinted, initiating conversations with ChatGPT.. I feel like the only thing that would work is buying an old Nokia. However, I can’t get rid of all those apps entirely for obvious reasons. Anyone dealing with the same dilemma?