u/deep_miner_8157

Primal Debt💵

I just have a simple question, how much do yall spend per month on this diet. I’m weaning into this diet so I’m not buying raw EVERYTHING but I do my best with what’s available and I find it pricey. Doesn’t break the bank but definitely stands out compared to other bills. Idk, how much a month do you all spend a month?

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u/deep_miner_8157 — 6 hours ago

Am I honoring my parents?

This is a lot to unfold if anyone has advice for anything other than the main question at the end, I’m open to it. I’m 24m my partner is 23f we’ve been together for quite some time, I trust her with everything in my life. Ever since I met her she has only made my life better. What I’m about to bring up is not because there’s lack of trust or dishonesty in our relationship.

To start there was a big 12 year disconnect in my family mother got deported and my father passed away over 10 years ago, my mother is still alive there’s decent communication but I don’t see her since she lives in another country.

Now this is where it gets weird. My parents weren’t the most “christian” people I knew. There was a lot of lust and sexual immorality between them and others. When I was little like 4-6yo I would witness some of these things, I knew they were wrong but I didn’t say anything.

Fast forward, I came across some of his things recently and in that was his computer. There were so many happy memories that I actually recalled, people I haven’t seen in years, many pictures and videos that simply brought me joy. Back to my story, my dad used to record some of his “sessions” with his partners which I already knew and did my best to avoid while searching. But there was one video in particular involving both my parents that just shook me to my core and it has changed my perception of my parents negatively, it was nothing illegal, no one was getting hurt. But this really ruined all the other good things I saw earlier.

My partner noticed my mood later that day and she asked me what was wrong I gave her the gist no details. But I really wanted to tell her what it was that changed my mood, she asked over and over, naturally she got upset and thought that I didn’t trust her with sensitive information.

All I’m asking here is, can I open up completely to her without dishonoring my parents? Would I be dishonoring my parents if I confided in my wife about this?

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u/deep_miner_8157 — 3 months ago