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As we all know, Jupiter is transiting to Cancer, I just wanted to understand how we actually check the impacts of this transit. Is it from the lagna or is it from the rashi?

The reason is, say for example, Jupiter is transiting to Cancer. How will it impact the person who is having a Cancer ascendant and is born with Cancer ascendant but has the Moon in Leo? This makes Jupiter go to the 12th from the Moon. If you look at it from the Moon sign perspective it is the 12th from the Moon but if you look at it from the lagna ascendant perspective it is in the first house of the chart.

How do we actually calculate the impacts of this particular Jupiter transit? I took this example because it is considered that Jupiter loses its strength in the 12th from the Moon. This is what I had read but it also enhances. It is a beautiful transit for Cancer ascendants. This combination, wherein the Moon is in Leo but the person is born in Cancer ascendant, how will it affect the individual?

Cancer lagna...simha Rashi... moon and rahu in 2nd and ketu in 8th house respectively..jupiter in 9th house and venus in taurus..sun and mars in gemini.

Astrologer is recommending alexandrite gemstone to be worn in ring finger....anybody has seen positive results or opinion on this recommendations?

TLDR - During final year engineering, I developed feelings for a classmate after we got close during a college fest, but graduation happened soon after and we drifted apart without confessing anything. After four years, those feelings resurfaced, so I unfollowed her and deleted her number to move on. Recently, after joining Shaadi.com due to family pressure, her profile appeared first, which shook me emotionally. Now I’m confused whether it’s coincidence, algorithm, destiny, or unfinished business.

Recently something happened with me which made me question life itself, to question how the future works. The story goes like this: during my engineering days I had a crush on a girl whom I had met in the final year. Let me tell you, she was my classmate. I had not known her properly for the first 3 years of my engineering.

Since we all are seniors we were handling the fest, we got to know each other a bit during the fest, We were quite attracted to each other. The fest was over. We were in touch. We slowly got to know each other a bit, day by day. As you all know the fest happens during the last phase of the final year so we had no much time to spend together. The final exams and the projects happened. We wrapped up our engineering, we got graduated and the bond slowly drifted away. We were never in touch for almost 4 years... Nor did I get a chance to tell her that I had a thing for her. Nor did she. We just drifted away we focused on her career at least I did. I am not sure about her.

A bit of background: she is very generous, kind, shy type of girl, very strict too sometimes.

From the past one year, I have been getting these feelings for her again out of nowhere. I think the memory is kicking in. I just remember the old days.

I lately thought that this particular feeling is coming from the surface, like it's coming from unfinished business, right? Because I always wanted to tell her but I couldn't, so I thought this was the source. What I did was I removed her memories: I unfollowed her on Instagram and I deleted her number, which might be immature, but it kind of helped me to stay in the moment and think of my feelings. I just wanted to see if it is real or if it is coming from the core memory or unfinished business. I did that. I unfollowed her everywhere. I cut off the connections. I don't even have her number right now. No pictures, nothing.

Lately my family forces me to install Shadi.com for looking for the better partner, the better half. Guess what? The first profile that shows up on Shadi.com is hers! She was the first profile that came up when I completed the setup and I bought the premium, and she's the first profile. Now this killed me! I didn't know how to react! Maybe it seems normal? I don't know. Algorithm doing its job but out of nowhere! See the probability of me and her matching up seems like a plan. Sometimes I feel it's coincidence, maybe life is testing you by throwing questions back at you but I also feel somehow this is destiny but sometimes I feel it's just coincidence but why the first profile? That thing is stuck in my mind. I hate that I'm in this situation because I'm the guy who follows clarity, who tries to get clarity most of the time, but this is the only thing that keeps eating me. As much as I've run from her, I don't know why I keep coming back to her. What is this? I still haven't confessed to her. I haven't even told her that I have feelings for her. I thought I had moved on the moment I cleared everything but as soon as I saw a pic on the profile, something started again. I need some guidance.

I am tired of eating Domino's pizza, am back to Hubli after a zillion days. Any new best pizza store in city ? would like to try some good stuff...