u/desperate_Bree

Hi, I’m a 24F and I recently fully moved to Yuma and have 0 friends here. I don’t know where people around my age hang out, it seems like everywhere I go it’s either older adults that have families or seniors :(. I’m trying to meet people organically and not on apps.

I love film and music so I wonder if there are any clubs or something like that? I’m kind of more on the alternative side.

If people could just tell me where I could find people my age I would be super grateful.

Hi! I’ve been debating this a lot, but in the place where I work at there’s a guy who I rarely spoke to or interacted with (I see him in the office and that’s about it) The other day he sent me a message on instagram asking me stuff about work. I found it VERY ODD (like use an email hello??). Next thing he follows me and I thought it would be weird if I didn’t follow him back, so I did. But then he started talking to me about non-work stuff and I found it uncomfortable because some of the messages were about my appearance. (He replied to a like on a random reel I saw that weirded me out a lot)

I don’t know what to do, if I block him maybe he will find my account via other account that isn’t linked to his. My latest solution I’ve thought of was to block him and change my username so he cannot find me when he searches me elsewhere and if he asks just lie and tell him I deleted my account. Do you think it’s a good idea?

(Also I don’t plan on staying long in that workplace since I’ve been wanting to move cities + he is not like a superior or my boss or anything above me)