I (21F) am a virgin and looking for advice to repress the urges. Recently I'm genuinely thinking about just going out to a bar and finding some older experienced guy to lose my virginity to. Please help. What are some things I can do to repress the urges?
I (F21) have been talking to this man (44) for over a year now. Its been long distance so far and because of some work issues we haven't been able to meet each other though we're planning to. Recently his texts got a bit shorter and the tone less playful (less petnames, dryer replies...) And today I was on Instagram and I saw he liked another girl's picture. He follows her and shes close to my age and she's attractive. I don't know why it made my heart clench especially since this is my first experience with guys and I've been really patient with him visiting me. Obviously he doesn't owe me anything because he's single and he said we shouldn't be monogamous till we meet. But I've really given this everything. I invested a lot of my time and energy and I'm not seeing anyone else near me and I didnt think he was either but now I'm not sure.
Do you think this is a smaller issue than what im making it out to be?
I (F21) have been talking to this man (44) for over a year now. Its been long distance so far and because of some work issues we haven't been able to meet each other though we're planning to. Recently his texts got a bit shorter and the tone less playful (less petnames, dryer replies...) And today I was on Instagram and I saw he liked another girl's picture. He follows her and shes close to my age and she's attractive. I don't know why it made my heart clench especially since this is my first experience with guys and I've been really patient with him visiting me. Obviously he doesn't owe me anything because he's single and he said we shouldn't be monogamous till we meet. But I've really given this everything. I invested a lot of my time and energy and I'm not seeing anyone else near me and I didnt think he was either but now I'm not sure.
Do you think this is a smaller issue than what im making it out to be?