u/donotwantaname

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Hey B*tches!

I want to get my younger cousin a special birthday gift cause she’s turning 25. I’m 10+ years older than her and don’t really know what the “it” bags, jewelry, makeup brands are now for Gen-Z.

She’s still in school while working so usually is very budget conscious and shops at Primark, Marshals, SHEIN. I could give her money but I’d rather get her something she wouldn’t buy herself. She loves TikTok, which I’m not on. Are there trending brands there? Budget is $250-$500.

What do ya’ll recommend?

I know fluoride is bad in large quantities but the evidence shows that it helps protect teeth from cavities which is why dentists recommend it and they put it in tap water etc.

Why do people say it’s bad/are trying to get it removed from water sources etc?

I know the anti-vax thing started with the fraudulent autism study but where did the fluoride thing start and what do they think it does?

Looking for a hotel for a short stay in Bar Harbor Maine with our dog and toddler. From what I can tell online West Street Hotel and Harborside Hotel are both dog friendly and seem to be owned by the same group. Has anybody stayed at either and can weigh in on what’s better?

Ideally we want a place with a pool with more relaxed/kid friendly vibes.

Other recs appreciated as well!