u/donttouchme_peasant

Broke up with kinda boyfriend

Broke up with kinda boyfriend

I 21f have been seeing a guy 29m for like 8 months now we met last summer swimming, and we started really regularly hooking up around Halloween. I've always known he was monogamous and it started off as just a hookup but 8 months is a long time. In the beginning of December, he suddenly had to leave the state for several months, until end of February, and literally 2 days after he left, i meet my partners 22nb&22f everyone knew about everyone, but it changed after he got back he literally drove 13+ hours straight to see me and the reunion was so good i missed him so much, things have very much felt like less of a hookup and more like dates we go out to eat and to the beach and we smoke and laugh he makes time for me after long ass days he comes and visits me when i work doubles (16+hours) and takes me to lunch it was good i was so happy, but last night we talked a bunch and he said he cant do it anymore that he needs a 1 on 1 relationship, i respect it I've known hes mono since the beginning i just didn't expect to like him this much, we are gonna talk in person tomorrow but idk i just know its gonna hurt and ill miss him

Tldr broke up with fwb and sad :(

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u/donttouchme_peasant — 3 days ago

Broke up with kinda boyfriend

I 21f have been seeing a guy 29m for like 8 months now we met last summer swimming, and we started really regularly hooking up around Halloween. I've always known he was monogamous and it started off as just a hookup but 8 months is a long time. In the beginning of December, he suddenly had to leave the state for several months, until end of February, and literally 2 days after he left, i meet my partners 22nb&22f everyone knew about everyone, but it changed after he got back he literally drove 13+ hours straight to see me and the reunion was so good i missed him so much, things have very much felt like less of a hookup and more like dates we go out to eat and to the beach and we smoke and laugh he makes time for me after long ass days he comes and visits me when i work doubles (16+hours) and takes me to lunch it was good i was so happy, but last night we talked a bunch and he said he cant do it anymore that he needs a 1 on 1 relationship, i respect it I've known hes mono since the beginning i just didn't expect to like him this much, we are gonna talk in person tomorrow but idk i just know its gonna hurt and ill miss him

Tldr broke up with fwb and sad :(

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u/donttouchme_peasant — 3 days ago