How to make a relationship with avoidant partner work?
Things were really good when he is present.
I don't mind the space, but sometimes i see him not returning back, but every time he does.
I my self lean toward anxious-avoidant and prolonged spaces without communication triggers by anxiety and fear of abandonment.
How do ppl make it work?how to switch gears from hot and cold?? I can't be with anxious or secure ppl as it to soo space consuming and it creates a lot of pressure.