u/dreamworldgirl0

Hi all, so tomorrow is my (25F) first visit with a gynecologist in general, and also a consultation for a bisalp. I’ve never had a Pap smear or pelvic exam due to extreme trauma, and I’m wondering how many of you were able to get it done during the surgery instead of before. I’m trying to mentally prepare myself for her asking if I want to just do it tomorrow if during surgery isn’t an option, I know every doctor is different but I just need feedback to calm my mind. I’ve read a bunch on this sub, and I’ve researched a bunch. I picked a doctor from the childfree list, and I’m feeling optimistic about the surgery in general but just can’t get past the idea of a pelvic exam while awake. I’m sure some of you can relate, so what did you do to help calm your nerves and how did your first visit go?

Hey there, posting on an alt account because this is honestly embarrassing admitting this online. I’ve been living a NEET lifestyle for a few years now, not exactly by choice, but because of severe disabilities and unfortunate circumstances. I live with my partner, but I’m alone for most of the day so I tend to be very lonely. I don’t get out much, and I just want someone to talk to with zero pressure and no judgement. I’m into things such as paranormal stories (my current house is a bit haunted), plants, animals, YouTube videos, coffee and food, collecting trinkets, and the typical loser activities like getting high and staring at the tv (with the screen off), I don’t game or watch much anime or tv in general. I prefer to listen to podcasts or music, but yeah! If you wanna chat with a loser girl who has a lot of time on her hands, then here I am. Feel free to send me a DM because I’m very lonely!