u/dyke-world

How to get used to using new name?

I’ve wanted to change my name for as long as I can remember. I’ve just never liked my given name (Kailey). It had always felt too feminine and too close to my estranged mother’s name, and growing up I only heard it when I was in trouble anyway. I kinda cringe even still when I have to tell people my name and I often get called other names anyway (Kylie, Kaitlyn, Kayla). I’m nonbinary, I usually lean more masculine. But the idea of changing my name feels so embarrassing for me? It feels like no one will take me seriously or something idk. I know that’s not really logical but it just feels so daunting.

I’ve been trying out Kit, as it’s close-ish to my name but more neutral and can lean masculine. I think it sounds fun and is very easy to pronounce. I’m just nervous to tell literally anyone else about it.

How did yall get used to your new name? Especially if you felt similarly to how I do? Hope this makes sense. Thanks.

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u/dyke-world — 2 days ago

Does this sound right for me?

I’m female 27yo 5’1 (or about) and weigh 180, moderately active (newly, that wasn’t the case for a while) working out every other day and trying for 10k steps a day. I used a TDEE calculator and it put my maintenance at 2308 calories and around like 1,800 for a deficit. That feels too high? I was thinking 1600, and that’s what I’ve been aiming for. Does that all sound right? Aiming for high protein as well bc I’m trying to build muscle as well as lose body fat.

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u/dyke-world — 6 days ago