AITAH for asking my boyfriend to remove his high school friend
I (16F) and my boyfriend (18M) have been together for almost 2 years. I’m a person who doesn’t have any friends, except for the people I live with, who I sometimes talk to. He, on the other hand, is very social and has a lot of friends, and some of his friends are girls.
One of them has known him since high school. Let’s call her Kiara. He said they became friends because she didn’t have anyone, but further into their friendship, they developed feelings for each other. However, he didn’t want a relationship with her because of her personality (his words). To this day, they’re still friends, but they don’t talk, they don’t hang out, nothing.
She keeps sending him Snapchat memories from the past, and I don’t like it because it basically feels like she’s saying, “Think back to me and the time we had together.” And it’s not like she’s ugly either—she’s actually really pretty, and she is exactly his type.
I’ve asked him multiple times to remove her because she also constantly sends him lip-syncing videos where she’s clearly trying really hard to look pretty and everything. Meanwhile, she has a boyfriend, and she knows that he’s in a relationship with me.
But he never wants to remove her. His exact words are: “Why would I remove someone I hate when I never even talk to her? We don’t even hang out. You should be happy because a lot of guys actually hang out with their female friends.”
I just want to feel more secure in our relationship and know for sure that he puts me above her.
Also, just to mention, I don’t have any guy friends. I have him and five other girls on my Snapchat, and besides them, I don’t have anyone else on my entire phone.
So, tell me, AITAH for asking him to remove his high school friend?