ISO older mother stories

I’ve been a fence sitter for a while now and my husband and I are starting to seriously consider a baby in the next year or two. Realistically, we’ll be 38 and 39 when we try. And then what if we love being parents and want another? I’m having so much anxiety about waiting so long, that it’s making me think I missed my window or that it’s better to just stay child free cause we’ll be “old parents”. Would really appreciate hearing stories about couples who waited and had children in their late 30s and early 40s. I need some hope and inspiration that it’s not too late.

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u/elko0825 — 4 days ago

What is wrong with this bird’s eyes?

It was definitely low to nearly no vision cause it allowed me to get very close and I caught it easily (I wore gloves but didn’t even have to touch it as I placed a large mason jar around it that will be sanitized thoroughly). It could still fly but didn’t get far before going back to the ground. I have already dropped him off at a rehabber in a well ventilated box (don’t worry it wasn’t in the mason jar for long and that too had ventilation). She initially said it was likely a severe case of conjunctivitis. But I’m not sure that is what this is. The smaller pink growth moved as its eye moved. I’ve already taken down my feeders and am reconsidering my set up and if I should have any at all if they are contributing to whatever this is.

UPDATE: the rehabber said, “this is the worst case of conjunctivitis I’ve seen in all my years.” 😢 She gave the little guy antibiotics and pain medication. Noted he was very underweight due to not being able to find food. While she doesn’t expect him to live much longer, she said he was eating a ton. Whatever happens, he’s in comfort and being well taken care of now. Send him some good vibes! I’ll update again if I hear more about how he’s doing.

u/elko0825 — 5 days ago

Dreaming abt ppl from the past

Do you think when 12th housers have a random dream abt someone they used to know or have had a bad break up with that it means that person is thinking abt them? Could we be picking up their threads in the collective subconscious while we sleep? I have a 12th house stellium and this happens to me a lot, where I’ll dream abt someone I haven’t seen in years or someone I ended things on bad terms with, and it’s always so unprompted and random. Makes me wonder.

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u/elko0825 — 1 month ago