u/emmaisadoofus

I saw a text screenshot that said “I’m not ready for a relationship but I don’t want you to be with anyone else because I do want to be with you”. I related to it a LOT. It’s recently why I left my long term relationship, thinking that I just needed a change. But I’m the same person I was just single now and mad at myself for making the decision to let him go. I consistently make it his problem and am harboring a lot of resentment about it.

Has anyone been like me and then eventually gotten out of it?

You know when people say “Americans aren’t angry enough”? I am coming to the realization that I am that American.
“But my job” “my bills” “I have plans”
While realistically I can’t completely quit my job and give up on it, I need to get better at prioritizing fighting back and being another body at protests. However, I am scared shitless of the real consequences of putting my body on the line. Does anyone have advice for getting over that or working past it?

I really like porn that’s clearly meant for straight men and made by men and I feel weirdly bad about it because of all the flaws and violations in it.

I wanna start using them and want to look “presentable” but I worry that my hair will poke through and negate the use of the dam.