u/emotionalFantastress

Well, I'm not surprised if a man that show interest dating trans women love to watch trans porn. They might be fetishizing us or ... yeah, they're realize sexually attracted to us.

I'm dating with this boy for 8 month. We once to book a hotel and have fun there. I give him oral and pleasure him. So does he, kissing me, foreplay, until he offered to give me oral. I denied because it feels so dysphoric and gross me out.

But I know a fact that he never watch trans porn. Like I'm questioning how did realize he sexually attracted and in the step willing to date trans women.

I rarely meet this kind type of guy. Some straight men I encounter they admit watch trans porn too, like our body somehow cross their mind and attract them.

He's so sweet actually, and really wanna to understand my struggle being trans. But "this information" somehow nake me feel: "am I not desirable enough for him? Did he happen to date me because I'm easier; my dating pool is very narrow."

I alred noticed this that major queer spaces rarely have straight trans binary people, whether trans men or women. They end up having their own circles and niches. And somehow feeling so underepresented...?

This is my personal experiences actually.

Everytime I meet a cis guy who claim that they're okay with trans women (or even cis femboys—they always think femboys = trans women); they'll also fine with trans men.

But if they likes trans men, they might not attracted to trans women & feminine cis men.

Why do I find these kind of guys are chaser?