u/error_404_demi

my mom said to my (16NB) face that i have "raging hormones" and she doesn't trust me to be alone with my bf since we will apparently do things we would regret. she said worse things too that i can't put here, but the point is that i am no longer allowed to go on dates and i am so scared that it will kill my relationship. my love language is physical touch and his is quality time, and because of my parents, we can't get either of those anymore...

is there anything i can say to my parents? my dad is pretty logical so maybe i could convince him of something, but i can't think of anything to say to him since he can't trust me because of my age

(apologies if this isnt well said, im a bit scatterbrained at the moment)

im 16f dating 16m online, and im going to travel with a parent to meet him on our 2y anniversary (in december). however, my bf has an overly protective aunt who won't even let him go out with his friends if she doesn't know their family, so for me, as a foreigner...i dont have a chance.

so we're trying to think of ways to get him away from his fam without him getting in trouble. maybe he could pretend to go out with a trusted friend, but we risk his aunt calling and wanting to hear his friend's voice... any ideas??

my (15f) bf (16m) has been struggling with being loyal for over a month. he's infatuated with a classmate.

he communicates about it clearly, he left one of his friend groups to stay away from her, and he tries to act loving towards me like he used to. but i never recovered my trust in him... i dont really believe he loves me anymore. it just hurts so fucking bad, especially because this process is so long.... i can feel another breakup coming, and i need him, but i just want it all to be over with at the same time

even though we're almost never together anymore, when we are, he just acts so distant. he feels down all the time, and i just want to help, but what can my comfort do if he doesn't even love me?

but the thing i have been thinking about the most is how much i miss the sweet side of him. i miss being his person. i miss when he would look into my eyes with love.... now he barely looks at me, and all i can think of when i see him is that it's all over.

i just feel unloved. this process sucks.

i (15f) usually just say hi to strangers who start DMing me and let them strike up a conversation. it usually goes fine, but i have had two brief encounters with creeps online now and like... should i stop answering random DMs? it's kinda fun to chat with random people, but when it goes wrong.. well, i guess it's just uncomfortable. what do you guys suggest?

tl;dr: i want to go to another country to be with my bf and get away from my family so i wont have to waste years of my life. idk i just...need advice

for a little background, everybody in my life has been unsupportive of me for years, and i have always been pushed around and controlled. it led to major depression/burnout for a full year last year; im used to it. usually i would just keep living a useless life until i get free, but lately i have been thinking... what if there was another option?

what if i could get away somehow...? just think about it... if there is any sort of option for me to get away and not have to waste three more years, i would take the opportunity instantly. two or three years ago, in a different country (mission trip), i met the only person who i have felt deeply connected to in my life (16m)...we continued texting after i left, and have now been dating online for a year and a half.

i wanna go to him... i want to leave this house, state, country, whatever. i know i can only take baby steps without an adult, but...if i could get a SINGLE adult to support me, even a little.....

im sorry im probably being really scatterbrained, i just feel really angry and trapped just like last year. i know i will probably only get responses from people who think it's impossible, but whatever... whatever. thx for your time