AITA for deciding not to lend my friend my notes?
will try to keep this short. basically i (19, F) have a friend (20s, F) who rarely comes to class, and when she does she´s on her phone all the time. Before you ask, no she does not work, nor has any obligation that might make it hard for her to come to class. She always texts me, hey has class started? i slept in. No problem there, university is a privilege and you can choose what do you with your time. But lately its been kind of bothering me that she keeps asking me for my notes. i never really had a problem before, but a few weeks ago she asked for a task that was worth extra points, mind you it was really long (more than 6 pages and it had to be handwritten). i sent it to her, no problem really since i had completed it long ago. But she told me, and i quote, omg its too long! i wont copy all that. that made her lose her extra credit points which, fine. so ever since that incident, every time she asks me for something, i keep thinking "if she doesnt put in the effort, why should i send it to her when i DO put in the effort". its no different than lending your friends at school your hw, i think. the classes arent even that early, she just doesnt want to come. i know results dont always depend on how much effort you put in, it just feels really unfair. anyways, ill probably still help her but, aita?