So this woman, 37, I matched with last night says "the younger the better as long as they are legal".

u/faizxyz — 11 days ago

Proof that You can get away with anything if you look good, prompt this, opening message that...naa bhai, all about looks and pictures

u/faizxyz — 1 month ago

People say "Whoever asks should pay" but you'll get labelled as a "princess" if you expect a girl to ask you out or initiate a date. How does that work seriously ?

Every week atlease once this topic comes, who should pay on the first date.....“the person who asked should pay,” chivalry, splitting the bill, etc.

But there’s something I find funny about the whole “whoever asks, pays” argument.

If a guy expects the woman to ask him out or make the first move, he gets labeled as a “princess” or told that he’s not being masculine enough ( girl says am I the man in the relationship ). Yet if the guy does the asking, suddenly there’s an expectation that he should also pay because he initiated.

So how does that actually work? Let's say you ask your friend or homie to hangout, does that mean you pay for everything ?

If initiating is supposedly something men are expected to do, then isn’t “whoever asks should pay” effectively just another way of saying “men should pay” in most heterosexual dating situations?

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u/faizxyz — 1 month ago

Went out on a date yesterday and she got pissed the second I asked to split

Matched w her on Saturday. I know meeting this soon was dumb but I was bored. She was talking catching up and maybe makeout and all that if we click so I said okay I'll pick you up, drive around, street food, park whatever. Then she goes there's a cute cafe in Jubilee Hills we can go there. I know cafe scams exist but she didn't look like one so I said chalo milte hain, dekhte hain. She said meet at the cafe, grab a coffee and then see from there. Cafe was on District and Dineout so I even asked them beforehand, they said Swiggy works, so not a scam.

We meet. Looks nothing like her photos. Starts yapping non stop. Her Hinge dates, how many cafes she's explored with her matches, her ex, trauma and all that shit. Didn't ask me one single question lmao. We were supposed to have coffee and some snacks, she kept ordering food. I had like one two spoons of the pasta and a coffee.

Bill comes 2200. And exactly what I thought would happen. Madam gets an urgent call and goes to the washroom. I wait. She comes back. I told her I'll send my split, you pay the full. Madam ka mu utargya, literal face drop. Starts murmuring how can she pay the full, she doesn't have money, I should've told her before, all her prev hinge matches paid, where's the chivalry, you're the man... bro I don't even know your last name. Who even are you.

Anyway she pays, pissed, gets up and starts leaving. I get up too. Jaate jaate she goes "toh mat jaaya kar na bhai date pe paise nahi hote toh, go apply for jobs". I said "paise toh hain, pay bhi kardeta mai tune real photos dale hote to and if you had threaded your upper lips". Girl gets more mad lmao, she throws her tissue on me and runs😭.

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u/faizxyz — 2 months ago