How do people survive living with extremely filthy, toxic roommate when they cant move out?
I have been living in an absolute hellhole for the past eight months and i am completely at my wits end like i cant but my roommate is literally the most disgusting, filthy person i have ever met in my entire life. Living with her is literally so mentally distressing and toxic
Her side of the room looks like a literal trashcan. Her study table is buried under a mountain of garbage, thick layers of dust and old rotting food with spilled sauces everywhere on the table.
She leaves used sanitary pad wrappers all over her desk and floor and she even throws her dirty underwear on the floor just assuming someone else is going to pick up after her. She literally doesn’t even brush her teeth for days like can u imagine
I still tried to mind my own business becauae whatever she does on her side shouldn’t be my problem although the room smells really bad because of her disgusting habits
But then she like bought her disgusting habits to the bathroom. The smell is so incredibly foul that i literally gag the second i open the door. It smells like a complete shithole because she has zero basic manners. She regularly forgets to flush the toilet, leaves the toilet seat sometimes covered in blood stains or urine. Sometimes there is dry poop sticking to the toilet bowl. And even worses she once had her dirty underwear with used sanitary pad on it hanging for days on the shared hanger. The freaking audacity of this woman , my god.
I am honestly scared to even touch her or her stuff cause god knows if she even washes her hand after peeing or not. I literally feel so unsafe in my own room because of her.
For months i tried to be nice, i felt like a mother constantly begging a child to maintain basic hygiene and she would just brush me off like it is totally normal to live in filth. It is literally so embarrassing and humiliating for me to clean someone else’s body fluids because she refuses to take responsibility and has 0 shame.
When i finally confronted her, she got defensive and like stopped talking to me and had the guts to act like a victim. She wants to paint me as a villian cause i stood up for myself. She randomly said sorry one day and i for a second thought maybe she would change but it was all a lie. She is just as disgusting as day one and now it’s even worse
For the last three days i had to wipe her pee drops off the toilet seat. Like there is no way she doesn’t see it. She is doing all of this intentionally to provoke me so that i lose my temper and she can play the victim card in front of everyone.
I am so exhausted and so disgusted, i cant even stand to look at her face without gagging. She is a selfish toxic, filthy human being who has zero shame for her actions.
I wish i could do something about changing the room but rn it’s not possible, I just wanted to rant and let it all out cause it was just getting very frustrating for me.
TLDR( used chatgpt) : I am stuck living in an absolute nightmare with a filthy roommate who leaves trash, rotting food, and used sanitary pads all over her side of the room. It has gotten even worse in our shared bathroom, where she leaves blood, pee, and poop for me to clean up—she even left her dirty underwear with a used sanitary pad on it hanging on our shared hanger for days. When I finally confronted her, she played the victim and gave me the silent treatment. She hasn't changed at all, and I feel like she is now leaving her bodily fluids around on purpose just to mess with me. I am completely exhausted, disgusted, and feel unsafe in my own room, but I can't move out right now.