u/farawayxisland

I was a client of a doctor for about a year. She was a nurse practitioner but she was on the ball and I liked her for me and my son. Just had a check up for my son at the end of July and everything seemed fine. Early August, my husband goes to make an appointment and he finds out our doctor is leaving and we're being passed onto someone new. What the heck? She said nothing about this when I saw her. Even talked about what age to come back for another check up for my son. The whole situation is weird. I don't know if I should name drop but I'm bummed out. I was happy to have a woman doctor as my last doctor was a man and he did not understand baby related things, gave me false advice when my son was young that caused him to lose weight. Now I'm back to having a male doctor. The clinic has said nothing to me about this, only found out from my husband. Is this not weird?? Has anyone else been through this?

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For context, I have a 20 month old child. I gained quite a bit of weight, was very thin and small chested before, and I also breastfed but have weaned my child. I have been wearing nursing bras since having him, and my boobs and the rest of my body have gotten quite a bit bigger. These bras I have been wearing go sizes large, extra large, etc. so I have no clue what my actual bra size is and am ready to get back to wearing a normal one as my nursing bras are now useless and seen better days.

I measured myself braless so maybe that's the problem? I measured around the fullest part of my breast and my ribs. 44 and 38 inches. I'm getting mixed answers, but most sites are saying triple D or F 40?! I don't think my breasts are THAT big. I'm scared I'm going to order something online and a parachute will come 😂 Should I just go get fitted in person? Am I doing this all wrong? Or am I really that big?