Guy I met on Grindr didn't follow me out of his hotel room and instead shut me out - is this normal?
I'm pretty new to the app and I'm still exploring. I know how terrible some guys on the app can be, but I had a really strange experience today and I'm trying to figure out if I'm overthinking it.
I matched with a guy on the app, and we moved the conversation to Snapchat. He seemed genuinely nice, and after chatting for a while we agreed to meet at his hotel.
He initially told me to come straight to his room, but since we'd never met before, I asked if he could meet me in the lobby first. He seemed a little annoyed but still came down. We met, shook hands, and went up to his room.
We made small talk for a few minutes. Then he suggested we check out the pool. I said sure. While we were walking down the hallway, he said he needed to check how to get to the pool, so we went back into his room. After looking around briefly, he said he'd just ask the front desk instead.
We walked back out, he let me walk out first, and then he closed the door behind me instead of following. I waited outside for about two minutes, knocked, and got no answer. I sent him a Snapchat message asking if everything was okay.
Then I realized he had blocked me on both Snapchat and the app.
What confused me is that everything seemed normal up until that point. I’m not really upset about not being a match. I just didn’t expect the sudden blocking with no explanation.
Is this something that happens often on Grindr / hookup apps, or is this considered unusual behavior?