u/feralactivities

Please help this make sense

I've posted once before on a different sub Reddit and have since deleted the post after most people basically called me crazy or brushed me off as being too young to actually remember what happened. I swore I'd just move on and forget but too many coincidences keep happening. Bit of a long read but please bare with me.

When I was young I was sent to this school for preschool early development. I have a few memories of regular class activities but there are things that don't line up. I remember being taken out of classes to be put in dark rooms where I would put on headphones and be made to take strange tests I can't recall too well anymore. I've even been made to take those tests a few more times when I was in public elementary school.

One of my more troubling memories took place in this strange furnished basement like area where me and a few other kids were all being monitored by adults and given a bunch of food items. The room looked nothing like the rest of the school and to this day I can't place where exactly it happened.

Now, my dad has been in the military since youth and it's heavily believed that my dad was groomed into MK Ultra by his at the time step father who had been some form of military officer. He described being taken into a church basement where people would do these strange rituals and has been sexually abused by these people. In the coming years my dad has developed severe DID, has had many alters most of which I have interacted with, and had a military hospital step in and rope her into electroshock therapy where she proceeded to essentially forget huge chunks of her memory including many individuals (My dad didn't even remember me either).

My dad has told me a few strange things whilst growing up. One of which was warning me to never get involved in anything military because they would "be too happy to have someone else from my bloodline". But there was also a period of time in my life where I would have these very strange vivid dreams, dreams that I told my dad about that freaked him out. He had said something about not wanting me to have to go through any of it and I recall him being very distraught and telling me to tell him whenever I had dreams like that again.

The thing is I've always had oddly vivid dreams where I was either made to interact with or surrounded by strange beings. But I've also been plagued by dreams that feel way too real, usually dreams where I'm a child and I'm being abused or manipulated by these adult figures. I've even had one reoccurring instance of this where the dream would continue from later points after the last dream and they only stopped when I told people about them.

I've been having dreams like that again for a while, and it's become incredibly traumatizing. I don't want to give details but one dream had been so sickening I had a mental breakdown as soon as I woke up and can still recall the dream almost perfectly. A lot of the more vivid and strange dreams are the ones I remember consistently.

I've only thought about these things on occasion after receiving these strange sensory triggers and though I can't recall most of what happened I always have this feeling of dread that can lead to full panic attacks if I linger too long. I've also had strange encounters with people that have claimed to know me as well as occasionally being cut off from my father, receiving strange calls, or straight up feeling like I'm being watched. I know I'm not crazy because I've spoke to a few close friends about this and everytime I start to talk about it they'll interrupt me because they feel as though we were being watched.

Stuff keeps getting worse and I have reason to be concerned due to an individual that had reached out to my dad before his breakdown. She told him she was with the military, that she had been watching him, and had even given full accurate receipts to back up her claims as well as finding out she manipulated other people just to interact with my dad in the months they interacted before they had a bit of a separation. Part of me is concerned because although I haven't heard from her she had showed interest in me, went out of her way to contact me and ask me about my life as well as trying to get me to move out of state with her and my father when they were still friendly with each other.

Almost none of it feels real but I've been having these strange dreams again and I'l feel like I'm going crazy. I tried to condense this as much as possible and there are other events I've left out for the sake of brevity as well as in the case I actually am being monitored. I just don't know what to do anymore.

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u/feralactivities — 12 days ago

I can't keep doing this

I am so sick and tired of dealing with my mother, I feel like I'm going crazy and it seems like no matter what I do she's never satisfied.

A few days ago she asked me to plan a birthday party for my younger brother. So I planned things out, told her everything, helped pay for things and even made the cake myself. So today I throw the party and my mother last minute announces she has a hair client and fucks off for like six hours. We ended up doing cake without her but we still held out so she could eat pizza with us and stick around for the gaming.

As soon as she comes in she blows up on me for leaving her out of it. Makes all these comments about how clearly this was just my party all along and that all I wanted for her was to be the piggy bank. I told her the only reason we didn't wait for cake was because one person that had helped me bake everything had to leave for work and I felt it wouldn't be fair if they didn't get a slice.

She refuses to hear me, says I'm making excuses. I tell her we were all waiting for her and nobody was trying to leave her out, but she's having none of it and doubles down by saying I didn't communicate with her even though she's the one that took off and waited until last minute to say something. She even spewed about how she took off of work to spend time with us for my brother's birthday but once again she fucked off for like six hours.

Then she made things worse by calling my brother into her room to complain about it and it made him extremely uncomfortable. This was the one good thing he had to look forward to because he's been depressed and she had to fuck everything up just because she wants to be the center of attention.

I wish I could say I'm surprised but this is the same woman that publicly humiliated me on my birthday and then told me to suck it up and put on a happy face for the party I didn't want.

I need to move the fuck out so I can have a place set up for my brother or some shit because she is such a soul sucking harpy hypocrite. How immature do you have to be to ruin somebody else's birthday just because you felt like you weren't included even though you're the one that didn't show up?

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u/feralactivities — 14 days ago

I've dealt with depression since I was a kid and have been seeking professional help since middle school (I'm 21 now). However I live in an emotionally abusive and sometimes physically abusive home and have been kept dependant so I couldn't actually leave.

I do absolutely everything at home and rarely mess up but my mother is relentless in tearing me down whilst allowing my younger brother to sleep his life away in a depressive stupor. Meanwhile my older sister gets away with absolute murder and actively drags us down or throws us under the bus with very few consequences. Always being welcomed back with warmth and open arms whilst I get told I'm a disappointment because my mother doesn't like the way I talk.

I have genuinely tried to get better and have in a lot of ways but today I self harmed after managing to stay clean for 7 years. I've also been having a lot of violent fantasies of brutally killing/mutilating myself in front of my mother. (I acted on it only on one occasion though accidentally and bashed my head into a wall. Def not my proudest moment.)

I however do not make attempts to kill myself because of the people that I care for and my cat (who I spoil).

No matter what I do my mother is never happy and constantly accuses me of not showing up and not caring despite being the only one that shows up.

Wondering if anyone has any advice on how to manage emotionally as I know myself well enough to know I will continue to harm myself and seek out dangerous situations because the pain makes me feel good and being abused is the only way I feel seen and loved anymore.

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u/feralactivities — 2 months ago